Q: Do you have any tips for a mom who occasionally needs to bring her toddler along on prenatal appointments for baby #2? I can’t always arrange a babysitter. My 2 year old loves listening to the new baby’s heartbeat, and I think being familiar with the doctor and talking about the baby is good for him. I avoid bringing him if I know ahead of time that there’s going to be an internal exam.

Dr. Weiss: As long as you, or someone you bring with you, can care for your child during your visit, there should be no problem. Exam rooms aren’t kid-safe, and include electrical equipment, sharp objects, and unsafe liquids. Because waiting times can be lengthy, bring adequate food, drink, and entertainment for your child. And because certain childhood illnesses can be more dangerous in pregnant moms, never bring a sick child with you to the clinic.